What to do to make the 69 pose a success

The 69 position is one of the most popular and famous in sex. However, it seems to many that it is uncomfortable, difficult, and both partners have to try the same way. Are there ways to make it easier to do and get it right?

"69" is a classic sex position when two partners simultaneously perform oral sex on each other. It gets its name because when two people do it, their joined bodies appear to curve like the numbers 6 and 9 next to each other. The term comes from the French soixante-neuf (literally "sixty-nine") and has been in use for several hundred years. However, in order for this position to bring partners only mutual pleasure, they should follow a few simple rules.

1 Comfort above all else

Above all, do what is comfortable for both of you. It's hard to enjoy if you're in physical discomfort. If one of the participants has a sensitive gag reflex or claustrophobia, consider lying on your side or having your partner on top. Do not try to overcome discomfort just to please your partner, this is a lose-lose situation in advance.

2 Use props

Sometimes it can be difficult to reach your partner at the right angle, or your neck may start to hurt. In this case, you can prop yourself up with a pillow to provide the desired height or angle.

3 Take out the vibrator

Cunnilingus in this position can be awkward, no matter how many pillows you have. Keep a small vibrator handy or ask your partner to stimulate the vulva in addition to the tongue.

4 Grease, grease, grease

It can sometimes be difficult to keep your mouth moist when you're pleasuring your partner for a long time, so keep some lube handy in case you need it. If you don't like the taste of lube, you can opt for something flavored – just make sure it doesn't contain glycerin, which can give you a yeast infection.

5 Do a warm up

Having sex in the 69 position requires a fair amount of strength and stamina, so you should do strength exercises to make it easier for yourself. Also, depending on your body and your partner's body, increased flexibility in the neck, shoulders, and back may be required. If you feel like your body is stiff during sex, this could be a great reason to take a yoga class.

6 Change positions

If lying on your side for a long time hurts your back or hips, have one partner lie on the bed with his head hanging, while the other lies on top and supports himself with his hands. It can be nearly impossible to achieve orgasm if you experience unwanted physical pain or discomfort. A simple change in posture can greatly improve the sensations.

7 Take breaks

It can be difficult to focus on your own orgasm when you are trying to please your partner. If you realize that you are playing with one goal, then it will be useful to digress a little. Feel free to take breaks here and there. It's not a marathon.

8 Remember Hygiene

All bodies have smells and fragrances, they are natural, healthy and sexy. A quick shower before sex will help you focus on your work rather than worrying about how you smell.