When you should give up dating on vacation
Travel experience suggests that you need to be vigilant everywhere – here are the signs that will not let you down.
Holiday romance is a dream and a scourge of our culture. Young and not quite girls go on vacation, stuffing a suitcase full of short dresses and mini-skirts, and then indulge in all serious things in clubs and on the beach. Sea air and warmth play their roles in creating a romantic mood, so making new acquaintances is many times easier than at home. But not all holiday romances end equally well. Here are a few signs that your new partner is not the most pleasant person.
"I'll bring you a cocktail, wait here"
Never trust a man to buy drinks unless you are standing next to him at the bar or ordering from a waiter. There is no need to be gullible and assume that a barely familiar person is as pure in soul as you are used to seeing other young people. The sly one can pour sleeping pills or a powdered drug into your cocktail, which will not be noticeable to the taste, and after that you will easily agree to any of its conditions.
"Wait, I need to go somewhere"
Constant sticking on the phone and ending dates strictly before midnight are signs that often indicate a man has a family or a permanent relationship. Girls like busy guys, but in theory they should be busy with work and not with another woman. Ask the guy directly if he is in a relationship and if he is married. If he claims that he is lonely, then deception in this case will be on his conscience.
"Let's go see a movie"
Arrange any meetings only in your hotel room or rent a free room in the same place where you are staying so that you are familiar with the territory. If a man does not agree to your terms, it is worth considering – his intentions are most likely not good. Girls are often led by the promise of a chic country house, a terrace, or their own hot tub, but none of the pleasures of a rich life are worth risking your safety.
Why do we need condoms
Most likely, the guy has already picked up more than a dozen of the same pretty tourists before you. Especially if you are vacationing in a southern country, where our compatriots really like men by type. They are condescending to the issue of contraception – why spend money on it, if in any case there is a girl who will agree to have sex without a condom? Remember that STIs are not so easy to treat and have quite serious consequences if not detected in time. Don't risk your health for a fleeting crush. Carry male or female condoms with you at all times and feel for whether the man is wearing protection or cheating on you.