The roles that women in love play in a relationship

A woman is always a mystery and not everyone can find the answer to it. But often the success in a relationship depends on how well we understand a partner. Psychologists, in order to help understand the wilds of the female soul, identified five main types of women in love and described the features of relationships with them.

Nurse

For her man, this is a real savior, a good fairy and a mother. She cooks, cleans and does laundry, looks into her lover’s mouth and almost always gives in, ignoring her needs and interests. This type attracts men who are not too self-confident, who could experience a lack of maternal affection and care in their childhood. With the Nurse, they get what they were deprived of in childhood and seem happy, but it is possible that over time they begin to get bored.

The Nurse’s problem is that at one time she herself was choked with care, not particularly considering her as a person. From her mother, she received an inheritance – the desire to command and patronize, no matter what. Such a woman should understand herself and finally understand that she is valuable as a person, and not just as an attachment to household appliances. You need to understand that you can not be a caring mother for your man – he will not stop loving because of this, if his feelings are real.

Lolita

Such a woman does not have to be young – she can be either 18 or 30. Lolita is looking for a father in her man and pretends to be a helpless fool. Her type is an accomplished and wealthy man, accustomed to often changing women or a guy who, in childhood, really lacked paternal care. This is not surprising, because it has long been proven that a person often strives to give to others what he himself lacks.

Lolita leaves the family for adulthood and is not ready for a real, adult relationship. Therefore, she finds herself a "daddy", but he does not become for her the man of her life. Usually such women grow out of such a romance, like teenagers from the age when you can be a Tolkienist or a Goth. Lolita grows up and becomes disillusioned with a man, or even begins to rebel.

Undoubtedly, in a relationship it is sometimes useful to show yourself as a little girl in need of care and guardianship. But it is much more important to be different: a caring hostess, an understanding friend, a "femme fatale" – then interest in each other will not fade away and perfect harmony in relationships can be achieved.

Undoubtedly, in a relationship it is sometimes useful to show yourself as a little girl in need of care and guardianship. But it is much more important to be different: a caring hostess, an understanding friend, a "femme fatale" – then interest in each other will not fade away and perfect harmony in relationships can be achieved.

sleeping Beauty

At first glance, this is the most ordinary girl, charming, sweet, well-mannered and hard-working. It differs from others, perhaps, some restraint. She may have many friends, including boyfriends, and she may even be in love with one of them. There have been feelings for more than a year, but she cannot understand why the object of her adoration calls so rarely.

Sleeping beauty is attracted to men who are fixated on their own mother. Her boyfriend is looking for a lady of the heart, because it is necessary, but at the same time he wants to get the safest option – a girl with whom nothing will work out in a relationship. And the girl, convinced that the first step should be taken by a man, is sleeping, waiting for the kiss of the prince. There are many men around, but they do not long achieve the attention of the Sleeping Beauty – she constantly checks them and plagues them with distrust. And few people like it.

Sleeping Beauty should understand that telepathy is not the best way to build a relationship. A man who does not receive feedback rightly believes that he has no chance and quickly cools down to a woman. Self-esteem also works here – he deserts so as not to seem pathetic or ridiculous. The problem of Sleeping Beauties is the fear of being abandoned, which causes strange, from the point of view of men, behavior.

Bruce Lee

This woman is a top manager, and not necessarily at work. She is a leader and a generator of ideas in life, with the gift to solve any problems and get out of the most difficult situations. She is smart, energetic and independent, but her man is the complete opposite. He is an indecisive, often feminine type, who was raised by a loving and domineering mother.

Psychologist Carl Gustav Jung once put forward the theory that two entities live inside each person – male and female, animus and anima. Ideally, these two parts live in harmony and harmoniously complement each other. The animus is responsible for masculine qualities, that is, for activity, logic and analysis, and the anima for feminine qualities – sensuality, flexibility, acceptance. If in a woman the animus takes over the anima, then Bruce Lee is obtained.

Often this character appears due to the fact that the girl does not want to accept her own mother, and therefore her femininity. Her choice is to bet all her life on real masculine qualities and therefore she unconsciously prefers weak men. It is with them that she can organically complement herself and achieve harmony of yin and yang.

Of course, this is not a solution to the problem, and often one can hear complaints from such an energetic person that she cannot rely on her man and does everything herself. The control that these women love saves them from the unknown. But you need to learn to let go of the situation – to delegate some things, to allow yourself to be incompetent in some matters. Restoring the balance of yin and yang within yourself is the goal to strive for.

Saw

Such a girl usually starts a relationship with banter and jokes. For a while, a man even likes it, but only until family life begins. After that, Saw begins to make test cuts on her chosen one, and then she suddenly stops liking absolutely everything. “Whom I love, I beat" is the main principle that she uses in family life.

Jigsaw man has a penchant for masochism, which he acquired along with his mother’s strict upbringing. But the problem is not even in the man himself, but in his woman, who, ridiculing and criticizing everyone around, is trying to divert attention from her own person. Everyone gets it, but it is quite logical that the people who are close by suffer the most. Even if selfless love reigns in such a couple, Saw will eat her man with food, because she cannot do otherwise.

To achieve harmony in his personal life, Pila needs to make a list of 10 main claims against his man and present them to himself. It is well known that in others we are annoyed precisely by what we do not like in our character and actions. And you can also do something useful, for example, start learning a foreign language. There will be less free time, which means there will be fewer opportunities to harass your man with claims.

Psychologists can tell you a lot about relationships. They even have an answer to the question of how a woman should behave so that a man never leaves her.