“Once and 10 years have passed”: mistresses told why they don’t leave married

Any woman wants to be the only one, and not to share a man with someone. But sometimes it happens that relationships begin with those who are already married. Some of these circumstances scare away, but some do not. "The Rambler" found out why mistresses do not leave the married.

For men, a mistress plays a certain role – this is a woman a holiday, to which he is attracted. But most importantly, it is comfortable. You don't need to build relationships with her and be responsible for them, just have fun. Girls, on the other hand, are attracted to emotional swings, a sense of competition and hope for the future.

Often, girls become lovers by accident, and then time takes its toll. Relationships become serious, years pass, and they get used to being in a co-dependent relationship.

“At first he said that he had a bad wife and I felt like a queen against her background. Then she fell in love and tried to take him away from the family, but nothing came of it. I also couldn't break up. Sheer suffering. We were together for five years, "said Elena.

“I am the mistress of a married man, the father of the family, for whom I also work, he is my boss. Previously, I did not imagine that I would get into such a story, and then once and ten years passed. I wanted to stop it many times, but I still end up returning to it. Suffering and bliss are intertwined,” says Ekaterina.

Many mistresses themselves are in long-term relationships that they do not want to destroy because they are afraid of hurting loved ones.

“I also have a family, I understand why he does not leave the family. When I think about divorce, I imagine my husband's look when I confess that I love another. And my son's eyes. I'm not afraid for myself, but I can't, you see, I can't hurt them. It's like taking a knife and stabbing my boys in the back. And yet I love another man. With him, I feel happy, strong, young, loved, “Anna complains.

Another woman said that she was fascinated by a man, but when she found out the whole truth about his relationship, she could not cope with her conscience and left the relationship.

“I used to be the mistress of a work colleague. The relationship started with friendship. He allegedly got divorced because the marriage was cracking at the seams. With such noodles on my ears, I became a mistress. When after 2 months she took off the noodles, she broke off relations with him, but for another month he did not want to let go, called, wrote, came, caught in the parking lot, even cried. I'm sure a lot of people don't leave because they believe he's going to leave his wife. But I was rejected by the very fact of deception, “Xenia explained.

Indeed, there are those who really have been waiting for a divorce for years and nothing can convince them.

“I was blinded by love and waited for his divorce for three years. My wife did not write, did not call, he came to me at night, on vacation. In short, don't get fooled, girls."