13 non-obvious signs proving that a man is married

Sometimes a man is so carefully encrypted that you never think that he is in an official relationship. How to recognize if your chosen one is married if there is no ring on his ring finger?

Depending on what stage of life you’re in, dating gets a little tricky when you have to find out if he’s married or not. However, it happens that a man does not immediately talk about his status. Agree, it is extremely unpleasant after a few months of a relationship to find out that you are far from the only one with your beloved and you have been assigned the offensive role of a mistress. How to understand that a man is actually married?

1 He doesn’t give his full name or give details about where he works

A guy who is cheating on his wife is not going to want to give you a lot of details with which you can track him down. After all, if you can find him on Facebook, you can tell your wife that he sleeps with just about anyone, and this will destroy his family "idyll".

2 You Can’t Get A Lot Of Information About His Personal Life

He doesn’t introduce you to his friends, he doesn’t talk about his favorite hangouts, but instead focuses too much on you, keeping silent about what he does.

3 He doesn’t save you under your name on his phone

Has he assigned a nickname for you or does he not keep you in contact at all? This is all to avoid embarrassment in case you contact him when someone else (like his wife) has his phone.

4 Public contact with you embarrasses him

And he keeps coming up with excuses why. Does he show more caution when he is seen around you? Does he constantly come up with reasons not to post your photos on social media, or does he put you into "ghost mode" when he writes about you? If so, then most likely he is hiding you from his wife.

5 You both have very busy schedules and it’s hard for you to date

If he spends very little time with you, this should be a concern. Perhaps the rest of the time he spends with someone he is married to (and this is not a job).

6 When you first met, he hid his hands or put them in his pocket before continuing the conversation

This is often a quick way to take off your wedding ring without you seeing it. Do not believe that a man is not married just because he does not have a ring. You can’t be sure until you’re sure.

7 He brushes off any talk of commitment

Guys who are married don’t want any more commitment. They usually say they want to see how "things work out" or that "they’re not looking for anything big." It’s best to take this as a sign that the man is not looking for a long-term relationship, but if you notice that this matches with other things on the list, then most likely he is married.

8 He refuses to introduce you to any of his friends or relatives

If a guy is looking for an affair, he is unlikely to want to introduce you to his parents, friends, or even acquaintances. If he is married, he will do everything possible so that you never meet anyone from his inner circle. Simply put, if he doesn’t introduce you to people, then he is trying to hide the fact that he has a connection with you, and this does not bode well.

9 He Suddenly Disappeared After Texting Or Right Before Sex

Most unfree men immediately break off contact with a woman when they are caught by their wives. If this happened, it is likely that he just used you, but got caught.

10 Social media is not his friend

Does he refuse to add you on social media? Or is it not available on the Internet at all? If he has no evidence of his existence, then it is likely that this person is not really who he claims to be. Perhaps in this way he is trying to avoid exposing his betrayal through social networks.

11 He never lets you stay over at his place or even come to his house

This is a wake-up call that you should take very seriously. There are only two reasons why this can happen: either he still lives at home with his parents, or he still lives with his wife. Even if you don’t stay with him for the night, there’s no reason why he couldn’t invite you over for at least a few hours, unless, again, he’s hiding something.

12 He’s not in a hurry to call or text

If every time you call him he either doesn’t answer or looks busy, this could be one of the signs that you’re dating a married man. When you get to know the guy better, you will understand why, working during the day, he cannot talk to you at 7 pm. Most single men are not busy in the evenings, and if he does not have a good excuse why he cannot talk to you, then you can start to worry.

13 Strange reaction to incoming calls, SMS

Also, pay attention to how he responds to calls or texts when you are with him. Does he immediately reject the call before you see who it is? Does he jump up in the middle of dinner to answer the phone? It is possible that, in addition to his mother, this guy has several other people, for the sake of talking with whom he has to interrupt a date with you.

What to do if you find out that the guy is married

It is very frustrating to find out that the guy who seemed perfect to you is actually a liar and a cheat. Therefore, the best thing you can do for your peace of mind is to leave. If you have already invested time and energy in this man and are afraid that breaking up with him will cause you great pain, you still need to decide and leave him, because, as the famous Russian proverb says, “You can’t build happiness on someone else’s misfortune."