The man found out about the past of the girl and doubted the desire to marry

A man was about to propose marriage to his lover and discovered that his bride-to-be was a porn star. This is reported by The Sun.

The 37-year-old man anonymously contacted The Sun's "Dear Deirdre" psychological help column, named after sex writer Deirdre Sanders. He said that he was going to propose to a 32-year-old lover. However, recently one of her ex-lovers sent him a Facebook message with a link to the BDSM section of the adult site, which, as it turned out, featured his girlfriend.

“He found me while browsing her sister's profile. My girlfriend does not use social networks at all, "said the man.

According to the author of the appeal, the girl always said that at some point her ex-lover would write to him, because he was always the only problem. In addition, she remained silent every time she was questioned about the past. In the end, the man watched the video – he recognized his beloved on them and doubted his desire to marry her.

“Seeing her having sex with other men and women was horrible, but I kept watching it like an idiot. I told her everything as soon as she entered the apartment after work, and from her reaction I immediately understood that her ex was telling the truth. She begged me not to watch the video and said she wanted to leave it all in the past, “he said.

The girl explained that she liked to participate in the filming, but after that she began to feel pressure from the ex-partner – he forced her to shoot more often. The girl was worried that she would not be able to find another job, but at some point she decided to leave this lifestyle. She broke up with her boyfriend, quit filming and moved to another city.

Psychologist Didri replied to the author of the message that the girl preferred to be with him and values ​​​​the relationship.

“Colorful details of someone's past rarely make things better. You saw a happy future together before these videos and you can still achieve it, but you have to accept her past, “she said.

Earlier it was reported that a former porn star from Glasgow, Scotland, complained about the difficulties in relationships with men and talked about the consequences of choosing a profession. A woman believes that she attracts not those men with whom she could be happy.