5 rules of anal sex for beginners

Anal sex is no longer considered a taboo subject, but many women still claim that this is real torture. Before trying something new, you need to thoroughly study the issue. Anal sex without proper preparation and knowledge of all the nuances really will not bring pleasure, but if you approach the experiment correctly, then everything can go as smoothly as possible.

What can be dangerous anal sex?

By occupation, I am tolerant of almost any manifestation of sexuality in sexually mature relationships. If both partners enjoy the process and act based on the principle of consent – is this not an ideal union ?! Perhaps that is also why I am disgusted by some prohibitive measures. For example, in Saudi Arabia and in African countries, anal sex is punishable by death. There are states where anal experiments are punishable by a prison term of 10 years to life. With all this, the demand for strap-ons and toys for anal sex is steadily growing. In addition, anal sex is practiced as a means of preserving virginity – all in the same countries with harsh legislation. That is why I do not see the point in such ultimatum prohibitions: what is not allowed, I want more. But anal sex is quite traumatic. – Firstly, high risk of contracting an STI. – The second is a high probability of developing an infection: the natural bacteria of the rectum enter the wounds and provoke unpleasant consequences. – The third is the weakening of the sphincter: the anus will weaken each time, gaping will appear and one day a woman may not hold gases or feces.

Therefore, I always advise ladies to think carefully before agreeing to a dangerous experiment. And, of course, anal sex is worth it only with the consent of both partners and in compliance with safety regulations.

Safe anal sex – what is it?

Not traumatic, comfortable and desirable for two. I have prepared instructions for you so that an unusual experiment is comfortable for both of you.

The first rule is always use a condom. Be aware of bacteria and viral pathogens that are transmitted through the rectal mucosa.

The second rule is always use silicone-based lubricants. They do not dry out for a long time and reduce the risk of injury to the anus. Some sex coaches recommend anesthetic lubricants, but not me. If you stop the pain, you will not be able to hear the signals of the body and get injured.

The third rule is that anal sex should never be accompanied by pain. When it appears, immediately stop the partner and do not continue the experiment.

The fourth rule – do not forget to prepare for anal sex, physically and mentally. You can do an anal shower. This is a small rubber bulb that you will find in a pharmacy. Fill it with warm water and gently direct the jet of water inwards. Tell your partner about foreplay. First, the partner gently strokes the sphincter and stimulates the clitoris. Then he works out the sphincter with one finger. As if preparing him for penetration.

The fifth rule is to choose a safe posture. The most comfortable is when you lie on your side with your knees tucked into your chest. The so-called fetal position. The partner in this case also lies on his side behind you. In this position, you independently control the actions of a man. And the angle of entry of the penis is less traumatic.

Well, do not forget the main rule: do not alternate anal sex with vaginal.

And please don't force yourself. If you are not ready psychologically, there are fears, medical contraindications, pain – do not have anal sex. A very small percentage of women truly experience pleasant sensations during anal sex, mostly they endure to please a man. Don't hurt yourself.

Why do men like anal sex so much?

All because of the sensation of narrowness in the anus. This is our physiology: the vaginal muscles gradually weaken, especially after childbirth, and can no longer tightly grasp the penis. The muscles of the anus are much stronger, and even frictions are sometimes not needed for a man to have an orgasm. By the way, muscle elasticity can be restored with the help of intimate gymnastics. Then the desired narrowness will return, and with the help of intimate gymnastics and breathing exercises, you can perform sensual sex techniques – a Geisha kiss or a pompur. The feeling of a man will be simply incredible. And even a tight anus can no longer compete with your vagina.