“I love you" is the main “slogan” of romantic relationships. Every woman is waiting for this phrase with trepidation. But it often happens that time passes, relationships develop, and the man is silent like a fish. Why doesn't he want to confess his feelings?<\/p>\n
Women often have to think: love or not love? After all, it is impossible to draw a word out of many men when it comes to falling in love. An expert will help to figure out what reasons men have to be silent about love for a woman.<\/p>\n
Let's immediately discard the option in which a man does not say "I love you" simply because he does not corny experience these feelings. This is the worst case scenario. But the reason for the silence is quite easy to determine. If a man does not love, then this is noticeable in his attitude, behavior and actions. We will consider deeper and not so banal reasons why your beloved is still pulling rubber with recognition.<\/p>\n
Yes, yes, in his family, perhaps, it is not customary to express tender feelings. Dad never told mom (at least in front of other people) that he loved her. So the man transferred the parental example to his relationship. There is nothing wrong with this, but if you really want to hear love speeches from him, you can teach him by your own example. Softly, gently and unobtrusively say warm words to him and other family members, and he will soon realize that this, too, turns out to be possible!<\/p>\n
Showing feelings is a weakness for many men. From childhood, they are brought up as "men" who should not cry if it hurts, should not squeal with laughter if they are happy, and in general are obliged to behave as restrained as possible. He can fight with a high school student in the yard and proudly wear a black eye, but confessing his love is a shame!<\/p>\n
Men are often convinced that after saying "I love you" their testosterone levels will drop to zero. The key word is conviction. That is, the reason lies in his subconscious. In this case, alas, there is a chance that you will not wait for the cherished words, unless he himself decides to work on himself and remove negative attitudes from his head.<\/p>\n
It's scary to be rejected. What if his confessions are not reciprocated? It's scary to bare your soul and become vulnerable. Will they betray him later? It's scary to take on responsibility. After all, he can perceive the words “I love you” as a contract of love signed with blood. Especially if you actively insist on recognition and knock it out almost by force. Fear is a powerful barrier that can only be removed by working with the subconscious.<\/p>\n
Do not overestimate the importance of verbal recognition. These are just words, and true love is not manifested at all in sweet speeches.<\/p>\n