According to statistics, in an official marriage, 60% of men and 40% of women have affairs on the side. Rambler found out how men experience infidelity.<\/p>\n
Cheating is a violation of agreements, for some people correspondence is considered treason, for others only intimacy. However, the very presence of infidelity suggests that there were problems in the relationship. For example, some couples get bored with each other and after a while they begin to chase new vivid sensations and emotions.<\/p>\n
\n“We lived in perfect harmony for 11 years. Two wanted kids. And then bam: she has a new employee at work, young, handsome, hot. Met eyes, butterflies in the stomach, well, further according to the scenario. The wife asks for forgiveness. Every day she cries at her feet, she doesn't need anyone else. It was just a passion, "writes a man named Igor.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n
Another reason is sexual dissatisfaction. Here we are not talking about quantity, but about the quality of sex. Often partners are not satisfied with the frequency of sexual contacts, the lack of the necessary variety and the fading of passion. Many people simply do not want to change, so over time, a woman begins to look for inspiration in others.<\/p>\n
\n“My missus from Egypt has returned. Tanned, radiant with twinkles in her eyes. She confessed to having sex with a black man. She says the first time was after alcohol, and then she could not tear herself away from it. Never experienced anything like this with anyone. I don't know why, but I didn\u2019t make a scandal, I thought, well, my wife frolic and returned. And besides, for some reason it even turned me on. And after some time it turned out that she was pregnant. My wife and I are in complete prostration and do not know what to do.”<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n
Starting new relationships on the side, a person tries to somehow diversify his life and get away from the usual problems that he is tired of in the family. Some people legitimize infidelity because they believe it helps family life.<\/p>\n
\n“And I let my wife cheat. If there is only naked sex on the side, there is no danger for the family. She loves me anyway. The main rule for a wife is not to get carried away too much. After the dates, the wife is satisfied, she simply radiates with satisfaction, flies like on wings. No quarrels, no nerves. Everyone is happy. My needs are 200% covered.”<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n
However, most men take betrayal hard and do not intend to talk or forgive a woman.<\/p>\n
\n“Men experience the betrayal of their wife hard, on the verge of physical survival. How can you forgive a woman who clearly knew that this was unacceptable, impossible. Which consciously did something to you, worse than which is only a vile murder with a knife in the back. She fucked you, divorced you, fooled you, while receiving a lot of pleasure, the price of which is your health, sometimes your life, the childhood of children left without a father or even worse, seeing how hatred and pain settled in the house.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n
Psychologists advise not to cut off the shoulder, wait until the emotions subside and calmly discuss the situation. Perhaps the relationship is in crisis and both of you have contributed to making the situation happen in this way.<\/p>\n
It is equally important to clarify the presence or absence of a person\u2019s desire to save the marriage. In some cases, betrayal is a step towards something new.<\/p>\n
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