{"id":478603,"date":"2023-03-07T10:47:00","date_gmt":"2023-03-07T07:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/inform.com.de\/?p=478603"},"modified":"2022-10-19T13:35:57","modified_gmt":"2022-10-19T10:35:57","slug":"love-lives-for-three-years-how-to-keep-passion-in-long-term-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/inform.com.de\/en\/love-lives-for-three-years-how-to-keep-passion-in-long-term-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Love Lives for Three Years: How to Keep Passion in Long-term Relationships."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>It is a myth that it is impossible to maintain passion and a strong sexual attraction to a partner after several years together. Sex never just goes away from a relationship in which both partners love and are loved.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;In the first two or three years, everything is fine with us in sex, because this <strong>is how physiology works<\/strong>. Even people with different sexual constitutions will want a lot of sex on emotions and hormones. But after three joint years, as a rule, it all subsides, &quot;explains Ekaterina Buchinskaya.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>The reason for this is our hormones. They no longer rage as before and <strong>begin to level off<\/strong>, and at this time we must correctly adjust to the person with whom we are planning our life further.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;At this point, it is important to review your relationship and plan. Just like we plan to shop for groceries, go to a beauty salon, or take our car in for a checkup. We can't buy a car and drive it all the time. She needs an inspection, an oil change, and so on. Sex is exactly the same. This is the same process that <strong>requires attention and planning<\/strong> ,&#8221; notes the sexologist.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/inform.com.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/post-450202-6332a0d97377c.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-bGlnaHRib3g=\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\"  title=\"\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"SDStudio-light-box-enable SDStudio-editor-tools-md-imp\" src=\"https:\/\/inform.com.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/post-450202-6332a0d97377c.jpg\" alt=\"Love Lives for Three Years: How to Keep Passion in Long-term Relationships.\" ><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The specialist recommends raising important questions with a partner that will help improve a couple's sex life. Among them:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<p>What happens in our sexual life?<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>How has our sex changed?<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>What do you like now, and what do you no longer like?<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p>How would you like to try?<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ekaterina says that it is necessary to sit down at the negotiating table with her soulmate and discuss this.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It happens that in everyday life we \u200b\u200bjust forget about sex because of important things. And in the evening we are already so tired that it's not up to it. Do not shift the responsibility to the partner, hoping that he will guess and come up with something, &#8220;advises Buchinskaya.<\/p>\n<p>She added that you can allocate only one day off for two to retire or go somewhere.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/inform.com.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/post-450202-6332a0dada6e5.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-bGlnaHRib3g=\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\"  title=\"\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"SDStudio-light-box-enable SDStudio-editor-tools-md-imp\" src=\"https:\/\/inform.com.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/post-450202-6332a0dada6e5.jpg\" alt=\"Love Lives for Three Years: How to Keep Passion in Long-term Relationships.\" ><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Maybe in a car, in a forest, outside the city in a clearing, ask friends for an apartment, rent a room, go somewhere on vacation, give the children to neighbors and stay home alone. If this is not practiced, <strong>the passion fades over time,<\/strong> &quot;the sexologist-psychologist warned.<\/p>\n<p>According to Ekaterina Buchinskaya, couples who discuss these moments, are interested in sex, go to a sex shop, watch erotic films, have the necessary <strong>touch of eroticism in everyday affairs<\/strong>. She awakens desire and does not allow love to cool down even in very long relationships.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/inform.com.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/post-450202-6332a0dc377f4.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-bGlnaHRib3g=\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\"  title=\"\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"SDStudio-light-box-enable SDStudio-editor-tools-md-imp\" src=\"https:\/\/inform.com.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/post-450202-6332a0dc377f4.jpg\" alt=\"Love Lives for Three Years: How to Keep Passion in Long-term Relationships.\" ><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Go to sex shops together, attend educational lectures, rent a hotel room, go to sex parties. Just make time for it,&#8221; the expert recommends.<\/p>\n<div id=\"PostUnique_PostSource\" style=\"padding-top: 50px\">Post source:  <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" href=\"\/\/salon.kr.ua\" class=\"external external_icon\">salon.kr.ua<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is a myth that it is impossible to maintain passion and a strong sexual attraction to a partner after several years together. 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